You and your family

Finding and planning childcare

Advice for finding childcare that best suits your routine when you return to work.

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Finding the right childcare for your family is a big decision. 

You might be thinking about what will work best for your child, your routine, and, if you need it, what will fit with your return to work.

There's no one 'right' choice. The best option is the one that feels right for you and your family.
Planning ahead can help you feel more confident and give you time to explore your options. 

When to start planning

It can help to start thinking about childcare early, especially if you may need a place at a specific time.

You might want to:

  • think about the specific days and hours you may need – building in travel time
  • consider how close it is to your home or workplace
  • allow time to look at different options and ask questions

Take into account your child's personality and preferences, and the type of environment you feel comfortable with. It’s okay if your priorities change as you learn more.

Funding is available for childcare – find out what you might be entitled to. 

Get tips on how to find approved childcare and what to look out for - Help paying for childcare: Find out what 'approved childcare' is - GOV.UK.

Taking things step by step can make the process feel more manageable.

Getting to know your options

There are different types of childcare available, including nurseries, childminders and early years settings. Read our guide to arranging childcare.

If possible, it can help to:

  • visit settings and ask questions
  • observe how staff interact with children
  • think about how your child might feel in the space

Trust your instincts as a parent or carer – feeling comfortable and confident is important.

Learn what you can expect from your child's key worker - Information for parents – Birth To 5 Matters.

Planning for the transition

Starting childcare is a big change for both you and your child.

You can help prepare by:

  • talking about the change in simple, reassuring ways
  • visiting the setting together if possible
  • allowing time for settling-in sessions
  • keeping routines consistent at home

Some children settle quickly, while others need more time. Both are normal.

Balancing childcare with your routine

As you think about childcare, it can help to look at your wider routine.

You might want to plan:

  • how your mornings and evenings will work
  • travel time and handovers
  • time to rest and spend together as a family

Having a simple plan can help the first few weeks feel easier.

Trust your instincts – you know your child best

Choosing childcare can feel like a big step. It’s okay to take your time, ask questions and think carefully about what works for your family.

If something doesn't feel right, it’s okay to explore other options. 

Pop into one of our family hubs 

Family hubs provide ongoing support after your baby arrives, including activities, family services and opportunities to meet other parents. 

Want to find out more about what comes next? 

Growing up, from toddlers to preschool – their development stages and what to expect. 

Family Information Service

There are many support groups across Oxfordshire. Take a look at some of them near you.

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